Because you’ve got to tell the girl that loves you to let you go
She isn’t the type to make up her mind easily
In fact, half the things she says are seasonally.
She never wants to admit it but she can’t grow up
She tells the world she’s independent but she won’t wake up.
Her mind is like a sea saw
Never abiding to the law
I feel sorry for who loves her
Wondering if she’ll stay but you’re unsure
Sometimes you hold onto the things you want
But when it comes to this
You’ve got to let go
She’ll always say no
You’ll never be happy
That I know
I’m sorry I’m that girl
boys cry
girls masturbate
boys can like pink and not be gay
girls can have short hair and not be a lesbian
boys can like ballet
girls can like video games
boys can be hot without a six pack
girls can be hot without a hairless body
boys can have hair down to their waists
girls can have stretch marks, curves and back fatgender doesn’t determine what you can and cannot enjoy, what you can and cannot look like or what you can and cannot do
(via negative-wonderland)
It’s hard to feel ok.
It’s hard telling myself that being this way is acceptable.
I know it isn’t,
I know I’m a mess.
I want to cry but I don’t know how.
I want to run but I have nowhere to run to.
Someone help me find myself.
Someone help take this pain away.
The worst thing is being happy but mentally ill at the same time. So you’re like ‘yay I’m so happy with my life right now, everything is great’ but your brain’s like ‘you still want to die tho’
!!!!!
People say bisexuals ID as Bi when we’re “really” straight or “really”gay because we want attention. I know I do.
But not the way you think.
Most people think that bisexual women are straight girls who are willing to make out with other chicks to improve their odds of picking up dudes. Let me tell you, that kind of attention is not fun. I once had a dude lick my face when I was kissing a girl at a party. It’s fucking gross, and bi women don’t want this kind of attention any more than lesbians do.
And if a guy doesn’t think he’s entitled to threesomes, odds are good he’s threatened by my sexuality or worried I’m going to cheat. Might be better off not drawing attention to my bisexuality if I want to date men.
And as far as relationships with other women go, I’ve only had sex with or dated other bisexual women, because the few lesbian women I was interested in rejected me because they “don’t date bi girls” since they’re worried a bi woman will leave them for a man. Might be better off not drawing attention to my bisexuality if I want to date women.
But, I said that I identify as bi for the attention. So what kind of attention do I want?
I want to draw attention to the fact that bisexuality is a real identity, and that you can’t assume that every person you see in a different gender relationship is straight and that every person you see in a same gender relationship is gay.
I casually came out to a co-worker yesterday by mentioning my ex-girlfriend. I have to go out of my way to be read as queer, because since I’m in a different gender relationship right now people assume I’m straight. It takes work. I put myself at risk to do it, and since I’m not looking for a relationship with a woman right now, I don’t even get the benefit of letting wlw know I’m available by outing myself.
I identify as bisexual to draw attention to the fact that there are a hell of a lot more same sex-attracted people than anyone thinks. So that people know better than to tell homophobic jokes or whatever that might hurt the feelings of any of my friends or coworkers that aren’t out. I identify as bisexual because maybe if people know I’m bisexual and they know that I’m not whatever stereotype they imagine bi women to be, they’ll change their opinions about what it means to be bi.
I identify as bisexual because bi-visibility helps everyone in the lgbtqia+ community, whether they’re bi or not.
May I have your attention, please?